kEEvE 'n frIDa

Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner. - Amy Bloom -

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Why I(We) Hate PMS


Having my PMS, arghhhhhhhhh, I really hate it. I'm having a headache now, really hate it, can't do anything ... only lying down on my bed ... 'n how I wish u're here.

Most of the reasons I hate PMS, becoz when I'm having it ... I'll have pimples everywhere on my face ... my skins become really oily ... back pain ... some part of body're getting big ... gain weight(I always wonder how tat could happen, 'n I got my weigh normal again after my period sometimes even less ha2) ... 'n the worst of all is headachesssssssssss, got my monthly headaches thanks to PMS ;p

N the only reason I can stand my PMS is ... well, I become overly sensitive 'n impatient ... so my hon 'n most of other people will understand, why I'm having such a bad mood ... if u don't get my point ... this's one of the time when I can be such a bitch without feeling guilty ha2 ... sorry hon, but tat's true ... for guys, trust me ... dun try any girls patience during their PMS, they have zero tolerance for tat


hate it hate it hate it stupid headaches, goin to lie down again


Monday, July 9, 2007

mY HiGh sCHoOl FrIEndS

Yesterday was one of my hi school friend's wedding, so I met some of my friends there ... I think the last time we met almost 2 years ago ... so many things could happen in tat period of times ... 'really miss the hi school times when u dun have to think about anything, just enjoy ur life' ha2 'n who doesn't anyway ;p

Some of my friends ... already married ... have kids ... waiting for baby ... goin to get married ... 'n some still lookin for the right one :)

When I met them ... well, nobody knows wut will happen in the future rite ??? ... I heard about unhappy marriage ... I saw unhappy couple ... I guess tat's life ... but it still makes me wondering ... how come people ended up together with the wrong person ... yes, there're so many reasons ... such as 'I dun wanna be lonely' ... 'May be I could love him/her at the end' ... 'I'm afraid Im gonna humiliate my family' ... 'Wut if I can't find someone else' ... 'n becoz of those reasons at the end we hurt each other

I think I'm lucky ... I have found the guy, I want to spend the rest of my life with ... he2 he's not the most handsome, the richest, the smartest guy on earth ... he's not perfect ... but for me he's perfect in everyway ... tough sometimes he's a pain my ass ha2 ... I hope 'n always pray we will still be like this in the next 10 years ... 20 years ... 30 years ... 'n so on :) I know our life won't easy too ... but I always think no matter how difficult it's, as long as we're together we dun have to be afraid

N for my friends ... who still lookin ... u'll find someone's who's perfect for u too in everyway ... who already has ... keep him/her tight, u'll never knows how much they meant to u ... who's already married ... hoping all of you, always happy 'n love each other

For my hon, my friends said lots of things about getting marriage ... bad 'n good ... they said, it's better when u're single ... 'n I just smile, coz I know ... single it's fun, I can do anything I like 'n yada yada ... but getting married to u, would be even more fun n excited coz we can do anything we like together he2 ... went for supper ... watching tat scary serials hi2 ... yum cha ... many other things

wE're GoIn To GEt mArrIEd

Step 2 - Find a solemniser or JOP, checked ...
Step 3 - the E Filling, checked ...

Dear GWAN KHEK KIN and FRIDA JONATAN,You have successfully filed a notice of marriage online with the Registry of Marriages (ROM) on 08/07/2007 04:35 PM
Your e-filing a notice of marriage is successful.

Saturday, July 7, 2007

07 07 2007
Yup ... July 7th, 2007, 'n there so many couples have theirs wedding today ... may be becoz its the auspicious date :)
I also went to my friend's bro wedding, have to admit it was one of the most nicest wedding ... the food is nice, place ... no qs at all, decoration ... i like it, the drapes ... flower lights ... the band ... one of the nicest here, n the emcee ... is a famous actress from Jakarta ... I think tat would be every girls dream, having such a beautiful big wedding ... I think it was the unforgetable wedding for my friend's bro
Yes, I want ours wedding to be unforgetable too ... since it will only happen once ... but unforgetable wedding is not only about having it big 'n beautiful, there're many other things beside tat ... I want to remember celebrating my wedding with best friends ... my closest friends ... family
Well, hopefully we will have the unforgetable wedding ... the day when we finally be together as husband 'n wife :)

Friday, July 6, 2007

tHe bIgGest THiNg

When my friends said, preparing for a wedding is not as simple as its heard or look, i would just laugh ... N many couples canceled their wedding becoz of its, I mean this is only the wedding if u can't handle it then wut will happen later after u live together, wut's the big deal about wedding ... it's only about, hire wedding dress, the band, the place, etc ... But now ... the reality ... it's really not a simple thing ... we could have a fight just becoz of simple things ... 'n I not even tot, tat buying a wedding rings is difficult 'n troublesome ... tat's happen to me, he2 we had a big fight just becoz of the rings ... can u believe tat
Preparing a wedding, big or small ... involving 2 families ... 2 person ... n tat means wut, kidsss ??? ... lots lots lots of disagreement ... n trust me, money is playing important role here he2 ... well, let's just say it would save u from lots of arguement ... 'n I know, girls ... they want their wedding to be perfect 'n beautiful, coz its only happen once in ur life
But the point is ... ''okay, it's not easy preparing for a wedding, even for a simple lunch banquet for 20 pax after ROM ;p'' ... for me, if I have to gave up to be together with the person I love, gave up to spend the rest of my life with him, 'n tat's just becoz of the wedding ... really, it's not worthed all ... being together with the person you love is the biggest thing u can have ... just think, how many people out there wanna get married ... want to have someone to share ... rite ??

ThE VenUe


First step for ROM ... checked --- Booked the venue,
on Peony Jade, rite ??? ... for 20 pax

I'm sorry u have to do all this things by urself, I wish I'm there so we could do this together ... I want to do all the ROM 'n marriage preparations together :( ... but the biggest problem is we're really far ... such as in different country he2 ... muach ... thank you, hon ...

Do u remember when I told u, I bought towels for us
just in case u wanna see ;p

Not tat nice, well ... gonna look ard
may be I can find better then this he2



If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you.
- Courtney Kuchta -


HiS ...
N u, u better find something to wear ... n stop complaining

Thursday, July 5, 2007



HErS ...
So wut do u think of my dress, do u like it ???



Click them for bigger picture ok ???